top of page
Search

The roller coaster of feelings

The question of ‘feelings’ has come up in some recent Secular meetings I have attended, and it is so important.  We live in a society so attuned to looking for experiences, and experiences are really about feelings – the adrenaline rush etc.  I find St John of the Cross so helpful in this regard, but he is also very challenging.  He continually calls us back to trust in God, not in our feelings, and that can be hard to absorb, because our feelings seem to permeate everything.  But compared to living by feelings, living by trust is so liberating.  Feelings take us on a roller-coaster to nowhere, trust in God keeps us firmly grounded.  That is also a lesson given by Therese of Lisieux, who lost God from her feelings entirely towards the end of her life; she had then to cling to blind trust, as she tells us herself.  It’s the trust of the child holding out its hand to its parent to be taken where the parent wants it to go. The spiritual quest is not after all about excitement, it is a quest for truth. 

 

Intercessions:

Brian Davis - cancer

Marie, Bernard (and wife Angela), Agnes – cancer

Siena, Elara – sick children

Rosemarie – seriously ill

Wojtek – massive heart attack leaving him incapacitated

David - housebound

Sophia – blind infant

 

 
 
 

Recent Posts

See All
A baronial retreat

Yesterday we visited Buckden Towers, near Huntingdon, to evaluate its suitability for an OCDS Retreat.  The buildings are magnificent, I would call them baronial, the interiors are delightfully antiqu

 
 
 
Getting close to Katherine of Aragon

Going to visit Buckden Towers today on behalf of the Seculars.  We are looking for a retreat venue for 2026 because plans for another OCDS Summer retreat at Douai Abbey have fallen through.  Buckden T

 
 
 
The cost of being a reformer

As I ponder the life of today’s saint, Charles Borromeo (1538-1584), it occurs to me that his vocation paralleled that of his older contemporary St Teresa (1515-1582).  Charles set about reforming his

 
 
 

Comments


bottom of page