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SECULAR ORDER OF DISCALCED CARMELITES
England, Wales and Scotland
The journey into mystery
Today’s Feast of the Immaculate Conception reminds me of my attitude as a born-again Christian before I came into the Church. In those days such doctrines (the Assumption being another) seemed to me and my peers to be gratuitous additions to Bible teaching by an ecclesial body out of control. The Catholic hierarchy had developed an obsession with Mary which distracted people from the centrality of Jesus, the Redeemer of humanity. Entering then into Holy Mother Church mysel
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An archbishop teaches contemplative prayer
I need do little more today than reproduce an extract from today’s Office of Readings, which seems to me to be perfect for a Carmelite. Not to mention that it was written by a man who served in these islands for the last fifteen years of his life as Archbishop of Canterbury - St Anselm of Aosta (1033/4-1109 ): ‘Flee your preoccupations for a little while. Hide yourself for a time from your turbulent thoughts. Cast aside, now, your heavy responsibilities and put off your bur
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3 days ago2 min read
A new Manchester saint?
In our new Manchester OCDS group somebody mentioned the name of Pedro Ballester, previously unknown to me, as a potential Manchester saint. I did some research and discovered that he was Pedro Ballester Arenas (1996-2018), engineering student and member of Opus Dei, who died in 2018 in Manchester from bone cancer. According to one website ‘ He had an ordinary life, which left an extraordinary mark. On one occasion Pedro felt nauseated by the treatment he was receiving at t
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4 days ago2 min read
The incomparable Therese
The latest issue of Communicationes, the bulletin sent out from Rome by the General Curia of the Teresian Carmel, contains an item that triggers memories for me. It is a report of the visit of the relics of St Therese of Lisieux to the Carmelite Monastery of Our Lady of Grace and St Therese in Carmel, California, on the occasion of the centenary of the foundation of the monastery. Two memories in particular. First, some years ago I was privileged to visit the chapel of thi
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5 days ago2 min read
Severe mercies
My good friend Richard died early yesterday morning. When we first met thirty years ago we discovered that we had been born on literally the same day - and that gave us a special bond. I will hold in my memory the thought of Richard’s unfailing kindness and helpfulness. For example, he happily stepped in and drove a friend of mine sixty miles there and back when I could not keep my own promise of a lift to that friend. His passing will leave a hole, but I instinctively tu
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6 days ago2 min read
Teresa in the desert
I am fascinated by the extent of St Teresa’s continuing influence over souls. A wonderful example is the Frenchman St Charles de Foucauld (1858-1916), whose feast day is today. Charles lost his faith as an adolescent. In his twenties in Morocco he saw the way Muslims expressed their faith and he began repeating, “My God, if you exist, let me come to know you.” He rediscovered God at the age of 28. He spent 7 years as a Trappist, first in France and then at Akbès in Syria.
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7 days ago3 min read
Advent and remembrance
I found this reflection for Advent on The Sisters of Carmel website, suggesting that the season of expectant waiting is paradoxically also a season of remembrance. ' As we approach the end of the liturgical year, and the calendar year, too, we are once more faced with the consideration of the end of time – and most people sense a personal realization of it, in a way, because we all must admit how swiftly this year has passed. These days of a waning November always give a se
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Nov 281 min read
Advent is the Carmelite season
As Advent is almost upon us I reproduce extracts from an Advent sermon given by Fr Michael-Joseph of Saint Therese OCD - courtesy of the Washington OCD Province website: ‘Advent is the Carmelite season; it speaks so much to who we are. Way back early in seminary I picked up a little book called ‘ John of the Cross, Advent Saint’ . I can’t remember anything else from this book, but the title at least stuck with me! The Advent themes of silence, prayer, loving attentiveness in
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Nov 272 min read
Withdrawal from the world
I was looking up today’s saint, the Franciscan St Leonard of Porto Maurizio (1676-1751), known throughout Italy for his missions and retreats, and came across this on the Catholic Ireland website: ‘ Leonard realised that he needed time to pray alone, and so he regularly began to make use of the ritiri (houses of recollection) that he helped establish throughout Italy. The first he founded in 1710 on a peak in the mountains where he and his assistants could retire from time to
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Nov 262 min read
God bless the Benedictines
Off to Hereford today to visit the Benedictine Belmont Abbey. The monks have recently opened a new retreat house and we are hoping to hold a Seculars Retreat there in 2026 to replace our planned Douai Abbey retreat - which has had unfortunately to be cancelled. The Benedictines have a wonderful record of offering premises for retreats – we have used their Abbey at Ampleforth for many years. For a couple of years we did enjoy the services of our fellow Carmelites at Aylesfo
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Nov 252 min read
Past and present
I have recently taken over as Registrar for the Seculars, a task which Chris Noble performed valiantly for many years. There is a wonderful old book containing a record of Promises made since 1882! Sadly, it is not complete because it relies on group leaders and Community Presidents keeping the Registrar informed, and for various reasons that does not always happen. One striking feature of the record is that right up to the 1970s and 1980s Seculars would take a new name in
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Nov 241 min read
Applying the rules
A fascinating feature of our Carmelite saints for me is that as we discuss their writings in our Secular meetings, we find ourselves drawn into issues where our faith does not provide any direct and simple answers. The Catechism lays down principles, but we have then to apply those principles in our daily lives, and that brings us face to face with dilemmas. How to share our faith with our children, what to do when they rebel, how to cope with relationship challenges, how t
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Nov 211 min read
Leadership is a cross
Some years ago I was talking to someone about a particular Carmelite convent I had visited; this convent had impressed me very much and I was shocked to hear that it was closing. I asked somebody who knew the convent well why this had happened and she immediately referred to damaging leadership. In meditating the life of St Edmund King and Martyr – feast day today – I find myself turning my thoughts again to this topic of leadership, a perennial issue that affects us all.
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Nov 202 min read
In and out of enclosure
The Frenchman St Hugh of Lincoln (1135-1200, today’s saint) was an influential figure in his day, an adviser to monarchs. I confess a particular attachment to him because he is the patron of Nottingham Diocese - in which I have been based for the past thirty-three years. I can’t come up with a connection to Carmel – he died before the Carmelites arrived here in flight from the Holy Land, but he was a Carthusian, and as a Carmelite I always feel a kinship with that Order; th
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Nov 192 min read
Electronic channels of grace
Why do a blog on our website? My idea is that a website like ours is somewhat static – apart from the news section it inevitably does not change a great deal, so after a person has looked at it once, there may be no great incentive for that person to look back at it again. The blog of course does change and in theory at least it provides a reason for people to return to the website. Nowadays by the way the website is a very important entry point for newcomers to the Secula
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Nov 181 min read
A magnificent Tertiary
B orn in Bratislava in the kingdom of Hungary, St Elizabeth of Hungary (whose feast day is today) was betrothed at the age of four to Ludwig of Thuringia (Germany) in order to reinforce political alliances between the families and sent to live at his father’s court in Wartburg. Their marriage was solemnised when she was fourteen and he twenty-one. They had three children in quick succession, and seem to have been happily married . I n 1223, Franciscan friars arrived, and El
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Nov 172 min read
Saints for every type
Many Carmelites have a favourite Carmelite saint or author. Perhaps it is the one who first introduced them to Carmel. Perhaps it is the one who wrote their favourite Carmelite text. That is all to the good, because people are so very different, we differ by our personalities, by our characters, by our interest, by our inclinations, and by our preferences. I was originally introduced to Carmel by St John of the Cross and it took a while for me to grow in appreciation of S
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Nov 142 min read
Rome and Providence
Late home last night after a rather long journey to Manchester where we have a wonderful new OCDS group. We talked about yesterday’s saint – Josaphat – who was born in what is now Ukraine, and we said a prayer for Ukraine. I compare him with our St Thomas More and St John Fisher and the other Reformation martyrs, because like them he suffered martyrdom in defence of the unity of the Church with the See of Peter. Down to this day, so many fail to understand that this is a f
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Nov 131 min read
A martyr for unity
Today’s feast of St Josaphat, Archbishop of Polotsk and martyr (1580-1623) draws our attention to a part of the world (Ukraine, Belarus, Russia) that is tormented by conflict at the present time. The story of this saint is hard to follow because it involved struggles with which most of us are not familiar, but the long and the short of it is that he as an Eastern Catholic promoted unity with Rome in a part of the world dominated by the Orthodox Church and he was put to death
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Nov 122 min read
Formation graces
When you are long enough in Carmel, they start to ask you to be responsible for the formation of others, and that is a wonderful blessing. Spiritual sharing is one of life’s magical experiences, it involves souls drawing close to one another. It provides an opportunity for heart to speak to heart. The Carmelite saints bring us into the depths of ourselves and enable us to get a glimpse of the depths of others. It’s a kind of sharing that doesn’t necessarily happen much in
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Nov 111 min read
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