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SECULAR ORDER OF DISCALCED CARMELITES
England, Wales and Scotland
A poem for the season
Below is a poem appropriate to the season by Jessica Powers (Sister Miriam of the Holy Spirit OCD). ‘Come is the love song of our race and Come our basic word of individual wooing. It lifts audacious arms of lowliness to majesty’s most amiable undoing, to Godhood fleshed and cradled and made least. It whispers through closed doors a hurry, hurry to Tierce and fiery feast. The liturgy of Advent plucks its bud from the green shrub of love’s compendium: O Wisdom, Adonai, Root of
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Dec 23, 20251 min read
An Advent custom of the Carmelite Sisters
I found this on a Carmelite website about a rather beautiful custom that the Sisters have: ‘One of the most treasured customs of our sisters is the Carmelite tradition of picking a day to spend in silence and solitude with the Infant Jesus statue in our cell. Each sister draws from a set of cards the particular day she will have as her “Hermit Day” during Advent. She will prepare her cell in any creative way she desires in order to welcome the special Guest. After vespers the
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Dec 22, 20251 min read
The Cloud of Unknowing
Some years ago I started a ‘ Going Deeper ’ monthly meeting in my parish. My purpose was to encourage those members of the congregation who were ready to go deeper into their faith and prayer life and give them food and advice for the journey inwards. The food and the advice were to come from the writings of our great Carmelite saints. Our meetings - lasting ninety minutes - have been structured on the pattern of OCDS meetings with Evening Prayer said together, discussion
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Dec 19, 20252 min read
Carmel and death
We buried my good friend Richard yesterday. I had known him for more than thirty years but I did not realise how very fond I was of him until he left us. I found myself thinking – how does Carmel help us to cope with death and bereavement? There are many ways of answering this question, but I recall reading somewhere that as Catholics and Carmelites we have already died in this life because we have pledged to go beyond the ties which bind us to this earth. We have declare
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Dec 18, 20251 min read
Praying for priests
Today I came across the story of Blessed Agnes of Jesus (1602-1634), a French Dominican nun who is particularly remembered in connection with prayer for priests - which of course is an important part of our Carmelite vocation. I have lifted the following information from a Dominican website, telling of a miraculous instance of prayer for priests: ' At the cloister in Langeac, Agnes gave herself fully to the religious life, burning with an ardent love for Christ crucified an
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Dec 17, 20252 min read
Blog temporarily suspended
I shall be travelling to help celebrate some birthdays over the next few days, so the blog will be suspended till Wednesday 17th December (when I have to attend a funeral!)
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Dec 12, 20251 min read
A model Carmelite
Yesterday evening my own Secular Group was able by coincidence to be present when the body of the late Joy Smith OCDS was received into St Gregory and St Augustine church in north Oxford prior to her funeral. For many years Joy had been the Parish Secretary. Although our paths had crossed a few times, I did not know her well, but I could not fail to be impressed by the warmth with which people spoke about her beauty of character. Even when she was already very sick, she wa
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Dec 12, 20252 min read
A modern Spanish Carmelite saint
Today we remember a modern Spanish Carmelite saint not well known in these islands, St Maria Maravillas. I have borrowed this summary of her life from a Carmelite website. ‘ Maria Maravillas was born at Madrid in 1891. She entered the El Escorial Carmel, Madrid on 12th October 1919. In 1924 she was inspired to found a Carmel at Cerro de los Angeles, alongside the monument to the Sacred Heart of Jesus. From this foundation followed nine others in Spain and one in India. She
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Dec 11, 20253 min read
A soothing Carmelite
I was discussing St John of the Cross with a fellow Carmelite yesterday and she used an extraordinary word to describe him, saying that she finds his words ‘soothing’. I can identify with that, because although his emphasis on darkness and nothingness can make him seem quite forbidding, the message at the heart of his thought is that nothing matters more than God. But if nothing matters more than God - and we know that God is unchanging and his love our ultimate resource –
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Dec 10, 20251 min read
The necessity of choosing
The Office of Readings is such a gift – an extraordinary range of offerings. Most are from the Church Fathers but some come from later writings and even – as today – from the twentieth century, the Vatican II document Lumen Gentium. This chronological depth is a reminder of the vast history of the Church, a history going back even before Christ to the saints and the wonders and the wisdom of the people of Israel. In committing myself to Carmel, I had a secret fear that I w
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Dec 9, 20251 min read
The journey into mystery
Today’s Feast of the Immaculate Conception reminds me of my attitude as a born-again Christian before I came into the Church. In those days such doctrines (the Assumption being another) seemed to me and my peers to be gratuitous additions to Bible teaching by an ecclesial body out of control. The Catholic hierarchy had developed an obsession with Mary which distracted people from the centrality of Jesus, the Redeemer of humanity. Entering then into Holy Mother Church mysel
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Dec 8, 20251 min read
An archbishop teaches contemplative prayer
I need do little more today than reproduce an extract from today’s Office of Readings, which seems to me to be perfect for a Carmelite. Not to mention that it was written by a man who served in these islands for the last fifteen years of his life as Archbishop of Canterbury - St Anselm of Aosta (1033/4-1109 ): ‘Flee your preoccupations for a little while. Hide yourself for a time from your turbulent thoughts. Cast aside, now, your heavy responsibilities and put off your bur
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Dec 5, 20252 min read
A new Manchester saint?
In our new Manchester OCDS group somebody mentioned the name of Pedro Ballester, previously unknown to me, as a potential Manchester saint. I did some research and discovered that he was Pedro Ballester Arenas (1996-2018), engineering student and member of Opus Dei, who died in 2018 in Manchester from bone cancer. According to one website ‘ He had an ordinary life, which left an extraordinary mark. On one occasion Pedro felt nauseated by the treatment he was receiving at t
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Dec 4, 20252 min read
The incomparable Therese
The latest issue of Communicationes, the bulletin sent out from Rome by the General Curia of the Teresian Carmel, contains an item that triggers memories for me. It is a report of the visit of the relics of St Therese of Lisieux to the Carmelite Monastery of Our Lady of Grace and St Therese in Carmel, California, on the occasion of the centenary of the foundation of the monastery. Two memories in particular. First, some years ago I was privileged to visit the chapel of thi
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Dec 3, 20252 min read
Severe mercies
My good friend Richard died early yesterday morning. When we first met thirty years ago we discovered that we had been born on literally the same day - and that gave us a special bond. I will hold in my memory the thought of Richard’s unfailing kindness and helpfulness. For example, he happily stepped in and drove a friend of mine sixty miles there and back when I could not keep my own promise of a lift to that friend. His passing will leave a hole, but I instinctively tu
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Dec 2, 20252 min read
Teresa in the desert
I am fascinated by the extent of St Teresa’s continuing influence over souls. A wonderful example is the Frenchman St Charles de Foucauld (1858-1916), whose feast day is today. Charles lost his faith as an adolescent. In his twenties in Morocco he saw the way Muslims expressed their faith and he began repeating, “My God, if you exist, let me come to know you.” He rediscovered God at the age of 28. He spent 7 years as a Trappist, first in France and then at Akbès in Syria.
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Dec 1, 20253 min read
Advent and remembrance
I found this reflection for Advent on The Sisters of Carmel website, suggesting that the season of expectant waiting is paradoxically also a season of remembrance. ' As we approach the end of the liturgical year, and the calendar year, too, we are once more faced with the consideration of the end of time – and most people sense a personal realization of it, in a way, because we all must admit how swiftly this year has passed. These days of a waning November always give a se
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Nov 28, 20251 min read
Advent is the Carmelite season
As Advent is almost upon us I reproduce extracts from an Advent sermon given by Fr Michael-Joseph of Saint Therese OCD - courtesy of the Washington OCD Province website: ‘Advent is the Carmelite season; it speaks so much to who we are. Way back early in seminary I picked up a little book called ‘ John of the Cross, Advent Saint’ . I can’t remember anything else from this book, but the title at least stuck with me! The Advent themes of silence, prayer, loving attentiveness in
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Nov 27, 20252 min read
Withdrawal from the world
I was looking up today’s saint, the Franciscan St Leonard of Porto Maurizio (1676-1751), known throughout Italy for his missions and retreats, and came across this on the Catholic Ireland website: ‘ Leonard realised that he needed time to pray alone, and so he regularly began to make use of the ritiri (houses of recollection) that he helped establish throughout Italy. The first he founded in 1710 on a peak in the mountains where he and his assistants could retire from time to
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Nov 26, 20252 min read
God bless the Benedictines
Off to Hereford today to visit the Benedictine Belmont Abbey. The monks have recently opened a new retreat house and we are hoping to hold a Seculars Retreat there in 2026 to replace our planned Douai Abbey retreat - which has had unfortunately to be cancelled. The Benedictines have a wonderful record of offering premises for retreats – we have used their Abbey at Ampleforth for many years. For a couple of years we did enjoy the services of our fellow Carmelites at Aylesfo
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Nov 25, 20252 min read
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